Friends and family seen so many thing turn sour when it comes to money houses and thing were they think they can take liberty dye to your friendship Former Mod/Member, with the most post & Chicken George Arch nemesis

chicken george wrote:

friends! unreliable things, I recently had to get the bailiffs to dislodge a ex-good friend from a house after he stopped paying the rent, Yet I remain close friends with his twin brother

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Being serious, there is no accounting for what people do. There may well have been a "trigger" point which has made her anti people in general and not you in particular. Friends come and go thats the way of the world unfortunately, and having a life long friend is a rarety. From what you are saying it looks as if the "trigger" may well have been at her place of work and is taking it out on anyone she can.

My advice would be to stay away but be there if she needs someone to talk to.

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If you genuinely cannot see why she has behaved in such an irrational way then it may indicate that she is mentally ill and be unaware of her actions and the effect on you and be in need of expert medical help. You may help her a lot if you can speak to her colleagues/friends to see if they have also noticed irrational behaviour and encourage them to pursuade her to see her GP. Often the sufferer is the last to realise they have a problem but they may also be very reluctant to see their doctor.

You being the victim is very upsetting and confusing when there is no logical explanation. - 2007(57) XS Auto, Rimini Red, Alpaca Leather.
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Thanks people, I'm reading it all and taking it on board

Set up a profile in her name on a swingers or escort website, make sure you put her mobile number on it and keep the pricing keen

'Tis life, chalk it up and move on. Obviously not the friend you thought she was.

On the other hand I have a couple of Royal Marine chums I served with, who are looking for work at the mo and they could make her disappear - not cheap though. Cost you a box of Mars bars at least - maybe two! Andy

I work with a person who hasn't spoken to me since I got the job they thought they were going to just walk into.

That was just over two years ago....

What a sad world it can be - great job though  2002 Honda VFR800
2002 Toyota Celica 140 Silver (mid life crisis - again!)
2007 FL2 GS Manual Army Reconnaissance Green + freel2.com sticker
2004 Toyota Celica 140 Black - Gone
2000 Toyota Celica 140 Silver - Gone
1998 Toyota Celica ST Pearl Green - Gone
1996 Nissan Primera 1.6 - Gone
1994 Rover Montego 1.6 Auto - Gone