sorry, it was not meant to be any thing other than a comment/description, it could well have been any nationality at the door  Former Mod/Member, with the most post & Chicken George Arch nemesis

No apology is needed "a black man" is the politically correct term these days as is "a white man" and I for one took it as a description of the fella. It's so difficult to converse on a forum and get across what's in your head without it being picked up wrongly.

Can't be doing with this 'got to be careful what I say' or do in case I upset someone attitude in society, I can't even walk past the primary school and watch the kids play without feeling guilty. I hate todays society we have bred where everyone gets pointed at with suspicion.

The Doctor wrote:

I bet when you answered the door Nick, you said this:

I don't know who you are, I don't know what you want, if you are looking for a place to hide I can tell you I haven't got time to help but what I do have are a very particular set of skills. Skills I have acquired over a very long career, skills that make me a nightmare for people like you. If you leave my house and daughters birthday party now that will be the end of it, I will not fight with you, I will not restrain you. But if you don't, I will fight with you, I will restrain you.......and I will get you in a head lock!

npinks seems to be quite taken by your words - taken being the operative word.